
Field Notes
Written by Rachel Poirier
Building Healthy Boundaries
Boundaries, also known as limits or rules, broadly define how we expect our children to behave.
Navigating Disappointment
From friends to grades to sports, letdowns will come in many shapes and sizes throughout childhood.
Intentionality In The New Year And Beyond
Change is always possible and we are all a work in progress, even beyond the resolute month of January.
Finding Your Family’s True North Through Shared Values
When we’re clear on our values, this can help us to focus on what truly matters.
The Ordinary Magic Of Family Meetings
Year’s end can feel like a natural time to look toward the future with renewed intentions.
Discipline Guidance
We can remain confident and connected as we lovingly support our children in building their skills, across all ages and stages of their development.
Co-Regulation: How And Why?
Co-regulation is the supportive process that can foster children’s self-regulation skills.
Weekly Parent Support Plan
What actions can we take today, this week, this month, and this season to support ourselves?
Supporting Perspective Taking
This important skill is one of the foundations for building empathy.
Gratitude For Our Tweens And Teens
What we focus on and feed with our validation and love will grow. Gratitude can shift everything.
When Our Gentle Parenting Needs A Boost
Because these strategies alone aren’t always effective for every situation.
Let’s Level Up How We Talk About Our Day
Often, the older our children get the less information we receive in response to the question of “How was your day?”
What Can Come Before “No”
We know that healthy boundaries come from “no”. But, what can come before “no”?
When The World Feels Scary
A recipe for having conversations about scary events with our school-aged children.
Be The Reason Your Child Thrives
Let’s lead with curiosity and celebrate progress, while also recognizing areas for growth that will stretch our children.
Healthy Boundaries Come From “No”
We do a disservice to our children when we deny them the experience of being told “no”.
When Parents Are “Mean”
Acknowledging and validating our children’s feelings doesn’t mean that we need to shift our expectations.
Navigating Big Feelings
When our children experience big feelings, they rely on the adults around them to model strategies to come back to calm.
Let’s Make Mornings Easier
Transitioning from a sleeping state to a waking state can be a disorienting shift.